I mentioned in my final entry in the Secretary’s Corner that I would share some lessons learned while sitting at the Secretary’s desk. The first are the positive lessons, which I am most grateful for and incorporate into my life. Next month I will share the negative ones, taught to me by the same Brother, which I am grateful for but choose not to bring with me during my own search for light.
As a newly raised Mason and even newer Secretary, I was seeking more than light…I was seeking advice on being a Mason and an effective Secretary. A Mason of many years who is a Past Master, Inspector and Secretary of a large Lodge became my unknowing mentor. I asked, for and he gave, advice on converting Coastside to iLodge, how to take minutes and numerous other logistical pieces of information.
Watching and listening to this Brother as a “third baseman” was inspirational. I delivered the Preambles for all degrees striving to offer as memorable an experience to the candidate as this experienced Mason delivered during the 3rd degree. I can only hope I partially succeeded.
I listened intently when he offered his advice and incorporated the same into my duties as Secretary. These were the lessons we both were aware of; the ones he was teaching and the ones I was asking to learn.
I hate to imagine my time as Secretary without this Brother’s help and counsel. Yet there are more than the lessons we are aware of. There are lessons we teach unknowingly, not filtered through the lens of cognition and delivered straight from who we are. When we are unaware of these lessons, the person who is seeking counsel can take them to heart and continue behaviors we are not even aware of. I have said many times our rituals are the framework that binds us together as Mason’s on our journey to becoming better men – they are not what actually helps us achieve our lofty aspirations. It is our actions that create better men, based on the precepts of Free Masonry. Next month I will share the lessons taught unaware by actions, lessons that I chose not to carry with me on my own journey to becoming a better man.
Fraternally,
Jim Poket
Trestleboard Editor